So, you have fallen for a girl whose very sight makes your heart skip a beat but you are helpless because you dont know how to introduce yourself to a girl. Worry not for no one is a pro at impressing girls. Every guy who you think of as a smart dude with loads of charm was not born a lady-killer. All of them have worked on themselves and with experience and time got better. Of course, today, it is not difficult for them to impress a girl but they have also gone through the jittery phase when one feels butterflies in one’s stomach.
So, don’t feel anxious. There are various ways through which you can introduce yourself to a girl and mind you they are all decent ways. There is no such thing about them that would make you look or sound desperate. We know guys are quite afraid of being labeled as desperate and this is why many of them refrain from approaching a girl. Well, you should never allow fear to guide your heart especially when it comes to liking and love. You never know when lady luck might smile on you. So, get ahead and get going. These tips will surely serve your purpose.
1. SAY A POLITE HELLO TO HER AND SMILE
This is the most formal and nicest way to introduce yourself to a girl. In fact, this is the best way to get started with a girl. There is no chance that she will take it negatively. So, when you see herthe next time and start feeling all the butterflies, tell yourself this is the time. Bring yourself to sport a sunny smile and then approach her and say a gentle but confident hello. If you are lucky and she is interested, she will definitely reply.
2. MAKE EYE CONTACT AND SMILE WHEN YOU MEET HER
Eye contact is a sign of confidence and girls like guys who are confident. So, the most important thing that you must bear in mind while approaching a girl is to look and act confident. Also, when you are in front of her, wear the most effective natural makeup i.e. your smile. Keep your chin up and shoulders straight. It will show that you are not nervous and quite relaxed.
3. BE YOURSELF WHEN YOU ARE NEAR HER
Fake people are a turn off and when it comes to guys, they are no less than an eyesore. No girl can tolerate a guy who pretends to be someone who he is not actually. Also, girls are very adept at finding out whether you are being your natural self or faking it. So, if you are thinking of introducing yourself to a girl, feel comfortable in your skin. We know all of you romanticize secretly with that ideal image of a lover boy who wins hearts in minutes. Well, remember this is a real life situation and not some kind of film script or fairy tale where you have to enact. So, be real and act real. You will rock for sure.
4. TRY TO BEFRIEND HER BUDDIES AND GET YOURSELF IN HER CIRCLE
If you can become friends with the friends of the girl to whom you want to get introduced, you can win the battle easily. So, adopt this indirect route. If you can find place in her friend’s circle, it will not be difficult either to find a place in her heart.
5. SEND HER A FRIEND REQUEST ON FACEBOOK
Social networking sites are really a boon for they have made bonding super easy. You just need to click the mouse and press some buttons and your introduction is complete. So, if you are the shy kind and timid, try out the Facebook formula. It will get you going instantly.
6. FIND OUT WAYS TO HELP HER
You must have heard about the damsel in distress and the knight-in-shining-armor. The latter rescues the former and they fall in love with each other. Well, this cannot materialize in reality but there is certainly some semblance of reality attached to this fantasy. You can also become her knight-in-shining-armor if you can find out ways to help her. She might need your help in some project or assignment or anything else. So, find them out and get ready for an everlasting introduction.
7. GIVE HER A GIFT
This sounds a little creepy and clichéd but it is not really a bad idea. You can approach a girl with flowers or chocolates or just about any other gift with a girlish flavor. There are pretty good chances that she will admire this gesture of yours.
8. FIND OUT ABOUT HER INTERESTS AND HOBBIES
Introduction can take place in a foreign language class or even cookery class. What you need to figure out are the interests and hobbies of the girl to whom you want to get introduced. You can join classes along with her or get in her group. This will help you to catch her attention and you can easily become friends with her.
9. NEVER DO THESE
The aforementioned tips have been known to work wonders for many guys and therefore, you must know about them. Nevertheless, there are also a few things that you must refrain from because they have been known to bring brickbats to the guys. So, exercise caution and
- Do not lose heart if she does not reply or treats you with indifference. It is just that she is not interested. So, read the signals and revert gracefully like a gentleman.
- Do not become obsessed with her. If she is being friendly it is not a sign that she is in love with you. So, take your time and take things forward to the next level only when you are sure of your relationship.
- Do not become a stalker lookalike. This is to say that give her space. If she has responded positively it does not mean that she is all yours. She needs her ‘me’ time and space and if you do not understand this, all her positivity will turn into negativity.