Have you ever wondered how fun games can help strengthen a relationship that can otherwise take a lot of time and effort to build on its own? Fun games to play with girlfriend become essential at times to make a relationship stronger. These games, however silly they may seem, help you in knowing each other better. The number of things you both will find about each other will amuse you and will help you deepen your love and build a healthy relationship. Read on this article to learn fun games to play with your girlfriend.
1. TRUTH OR DARE
Truth or dare is a very famous game which we all must have played in our childhood. Playing this game with your girlfriend will be a fun experience. You and your girlfriend will both take turns asking, truth or dare and the other will reply with either truth or dare. If she chooses truth then you will ask her a question which she will have to answer truthfully. If she chooses dare, then you need to come up with a daring task for her to do.
2. QUESTION GAME
This is one of the best games to play with your girlfriend. It can be played anytime, anywhere and for any length of time. There are no rules as such in this game, except that you have to take turns asking and answering questions about each other. The questions can vary from as simple as “what is your favorite color?” to a little difficult ones. You can ask her questions about yourself, to find out how much she knows you.
3. BLINDFOLD WALK
Blindfold walk is a team building activity. This activity will help you build trust in each other. To play this game with your girlfriend you need to take away her sense of sight by blindfolding her. Now take her on a walk or in a room in which a lot of obstacles have been placed. You have to guide her with your speech and touch.
4. SHARE SECRETS
The only rule for this game is that you have to share secrets which you have not shared with anyone before. Share something with your girlfriend that is difficult for you to share with anyone else. This requires that you trust your partner fully to know that they won’t go about making it public. For this you both need to be mature enough and have to share secrets one by one. This exercise is a great way to express feelings and communicate to your partner what you may not be able to say otherwise.
5. FILL IN THE BLANKS
Take a piece of paper and write down a sentence about yourself. Leave a blank in between and ask her to fill it. Through this activity you will have a clear idea what your partner feels about you. The positive and negative comments will allow both of you to work on your traits, improve communication and get closer as a couple.
6. TAKE VOWS
If you are into a serious relationship with your girlfriend then you can try this game. Hold each other’s hand and look into your girlfriend’s eyes. Take out time to talk about what you want from life, discuss values about living life. Make genuine promises which you both will follow in your life. These vows will always remind you of your togetherness.
7. LOVE SCRABBLE
In a love scrabble game a player must use the word he is playing in a sentence about loving his partner or about a positive aspect of their relationship. The game is played to see who can make the highest scoring words out of their random letter titles. Any word is allowed as long as it obeys the scrabble rules of no proper nouns, initials or abbreviations.
8. FULFILLING A WISH
Write down 20 wishes each and put them into a box. Both of you need to write on two separate piece of paper, one of each. Every month each one of you has to fulfill one wish of the other person. This game will also help in adding the surprise element to your relationship and doing something to make one another. The wishes can be something as simple as cooking a meal to going on a small holiday somewhere.
9. PLAY A RELATIONSHIP QUIZ
Play a small quiz with your girlfriend where you need to answer each other’s favorite colors, songs, movies, destinations, cuisines. You both have to quiz each other on these topics and see who gets the maximum points. This will also help you know about each other and also how much is yet to be known.
10. PAPER DANCE
Paper dance is a great way to come close to each other. Take a large piece of paper and play some romantic music. Every five minutes you must fold the paper. The game should continue in this manner until you both step out of the paper.
11. WRITE MESSAGES ON BACK
Write coded messages and make your partner guess what is says. This is a good way of saying things to your partner that you have been longing or too embarrassed to say. Write it with your fingers. You can also turn the whole activity into a massage session. All you need is the lotion in your hands and rub it on your girlfriends back. Leave enough space so that she can read the message when you write it with your fingers. She can do the same for you.
12. PLAY VIDEO GAMES
While video games are not usually considered relationship building devices but there are several benefits of playing games in which you can be on the same team. Working as a team helps you to understand how your partner approaches and solves difficult challenges and improves communication between two of you. If your girlfriend does not know how to play it, you can teach her. She will surely appreciate the fact that you are putting efforts to teach her the game just to please her. In the whole process winning or losing does not matter, the memories you shared together will surely be cherished by you.
13. SPEND SOME TIME LOOKING INTO EACH OTHER’S EYES
Eye contact also helps to build trust in each other. Sit close to each other and look into each other’s eyes. Eye contact and standing face to face with a person open up communication. You can try this activity for 60 seconds. You will feel that the intensity of the stare and the bond that you feel for the other person has increased.
14. PLAY SOME ROMANTIC GAMES
Take a piece of paper and write down words that describe your girlfriend and you ask your girlfriend to do the same for you. Besides this you can play a game where you and your girlfriend have to jot down each other’s likes and dislikes. This exercise is a great way to know how much you know about each other. You can also write a secret on a piece of paper which you have not shared with her before. This will show that you trust your partner and thus it will strengthen your bond.
15. BUILD SOMETHING
Creating something with your partner is a way to build your collaboration and communication skills. The connection between you and your man is strengthens when you see something created by both of you. The product you both make serves as a reminder of the great time you had together. You can make a shelter for birds or you can plant something. This will make you feel good and you will also have the opportunity to be together.
16. GO FOR BOWLING
Even if you lack skills you can enjoy bowling with your partner. Like video games, bowling gives you and your partner an opportunity to exercise healthy competition. You can also use bowling to learn to trust each other and work together.